'If I'm quiet, Sarah can tell something's up'

A woman supporting young people who have left care or are at risk of becoming homeless is encouraging others to follow in her footsteps.

Sarah Weatherstone, 29, has helped seven people over the last two years as part of Durham County Council's Supported Lodgings programme.

The scheme offers 16 to 25-year-olds accommodation and friendship, and helps them develop skills such as cooking, cleaning and money management.

"Every young person is so different," former police officer Ms Weatherstone said.

"Some of them want a maternal figure, some of them want a best friend, some of them want you to be a big sister.

"Knowing what each person wants and needs and adapting my approach to that is so important."

Providers are paid for the accommodation and support they give, receive training and are helped by a dedicated social worker.

Eighteen-year-old Ellie has been living with Ms Weatherstone for a year and a half, and says she appreciates the support she receives.

"If I'm quiet or my room is messy, Sarah can tell there's something up.

"I could speak to her about anything. I don't feel like I've got to keep stuff in anymore.

"When I used to do that, it got to a point where I felt like I was going to explode.

"I have more confidence in myself. I'm able to speak with other people, whereas at the start I just didn't want to speak to anyone. I'm much more open now."

Although she forms bonds with the young people she provides for, Ms Weatherstone says she feels proudest when they are ready to move on.

"I supported my second young person when she got her first house and helped decorate it.

"Just seeing the progress they've made and that they're ready to move on means I've done my job well."

Lodging providers can be working, retired or unemployed, single or in a relationship, and of any sexual orientation.

They must be at least 21 and able to provide the young person with their own key and bedroom, as well as access to a bathroom, kitchen and laundry facilities.

Councillor Ted Henderson, cabinet member for children and young people's services, said he hoped Ms Weatherstone and Ellie's story "inspires others to consider turning their home into a stepping stone for a young person in need".

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