Veterans 'moved' by first glimpse of LGBT memorial

Zoe Applegate
BBC News, Norfolk
Debbie Tubby
BBC Look East
Shaun Whitmore/BBC A person wearing a heavy-duty mask chisels out letters drawn out on a sheet.Shaun Whitmore/BBC
The sculpture is due to be unveiled in August at the National Memorial Arboretum in Staffordshire

Armed forces veterans say they feel "very moved" by their first glimpses of a UK memorial dedicated to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender military personnel.

They have been gathering at Holkham Forge, in Norfolk, to see work progressing on the bronze sculpture, ahead of its installation at the National Memorial Arboretum in Staffordshire this August.

The artwork emerged as a recommendation of an independent review into the historical treatment of people sacked or forced out of the military for being gay.

Retired naval commander Roly Woods was among those to visit and said: "I had a little moment to myself because I was not expecting to have such a strong reaction."

Shaun Whitmore/BBC Roly Woods is dressed smartly in a navy jacket, with poppy badges, and a blue checked shirt. He is grinning at the camera and standing in the forge.Shaun Whitmore/BBC
Retired naval commander Roly Woods said he had witnessed the ban on openly gay people serving in the armed forces ruin lives

Mr Woods, who served in the Royal Navy for 46 years - both under the ban and after it was lifted - said the UK's first memorial for LGBT personnel marked an emotional moment.

He said people saw their lives ruined by the law.

Abraxas Academy Artists' impression of a sculpture, showing a golden artwork resembling a crumpled letter with wording embossed Abraxas Academy
The sculpture - called Crumpled Letter - commemorates the sacrifice of LGBT members of the armed forces

"Up until the late nineties, people were sent to prison for being who they were; for their sexual orientation," said Mr Woods.

"Many were sent to jail, they were dismissed without pension, they were asked to go back to their families, who then quite often shunned them.

"You had youngsters in their late teens, early twenties, being marched to the gate of their military establishment... and living rough on the streets.

"We had examples of our veterans who were living rough in Portsmouth, just outside the main gates, because they had no idea what to do."

Shaun Whitmore/BBC A tall twisted metal sculputure of cut out letters stands in the forge. It is being supported by a red stand and there are industrial benches, cabinets and tools in the background.Shaun Whitmore/BBC
Artists in Norfolk and Suffolk have been working full time on the memorial since it was commissioned in January

Mr Woods also told how he had served in the Falklands conflict, in which about 250 people had died, with a proportion of those unable to have served openly.

He said the memorial at the 150-acre site in Staffordshire, which commemorates those in the armed forces who lost their lives, would give people a place to reflect on the sacrifices made by LGBT personnel.

Shaun Whitmore/BBC Kate Holvey-Williams is wearing glasses and has short hair styled into a slight quiff. she is standing against the letters memorial in the forge.Shaun Whitmore/BBC
Kate Holvey-Williams said people had been forced out of their military careers solely because of who they loved

Former Royal Military Police officer Kate Holvey-Williams was among those who visited the forge.

She signed up to the armed forces at the age of 19 unaware of her sexuality, and left just 12 days before the ban was lifted.

"It only had to be a rumour at the time, it didn't have to be necessarily true and I was given a choice: be a soldier or be myself, and I really wanted to be myself so I had to give my notice," she said.

"I hope it will bring some closure to many people, but also for them to be remembered and, not necessarily just for being gay, but for being brilliant soldiers, sailors and airmen.

"We all gave everything for our country.

"We're very proud and it's only because of who we loved that it came to an end."

Kate Holvey-Williams Kate Holvey-Williams is smiling at the camera. She is wearing a red Military Police beret, a camouflage uniform and has a red armband with the letters MP.  She is standing against a cream wall and wooden door.Kate Holvey-Williams
Ms Holvey-Williams left the Royal Military Police days before the ban was lifted

The charity Fighting With Pride has been organising the memorial, called Crumpled Letter, created by the Norfolk and Suffolk artists' collective Abraxas Academy.

The group, made up of artists including Nina Bilbey from Wells, James Spedding of Holkham Forge, Charlotte Howarth from West Acre, and Sue Aperghis from Felixstowe in Suffolk, found out their design had been picked out of 38 entries in January.

Shaun Whitmore/BBC James Spedding wears a black long-sleeved T-shirt and stands at a workbench in the forge. There are two open fireplaces behind him and a row of horseshoes above them.Shaun Whitmore/BBC
Blacksmith artist James Spedding said it had been difficult to manoeuvre the sculpture around his forge

Mr Spedding said they had been working non-stop on the sculpture, which was based on a letter used as evidence in a court martial between a serving member and their partner, according to Mr Woods.

The artwork includes words from the Lord Etherton review together with those about optimism, with Mr Spedding saying the project had "exceeded my expectations".

Reflecting on the memorial's entire meaning, Mr Woods said: "It gives veterans a place to come and the serving community a place to reflect on the progress that has been made."

Shaun Whitmore/BBC Armed services personnel in a range of uniforms gather around models of the design, laid out on a table.Shaun Whitmore/BBC
Small paper, card and metal models have been made as part of the sculpture's design process - and were on display at the viewing event set up by Fighting With Pride

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