Woman runs London Marathon in memory of mother

Oliver Whitfield-Miocic
BBC News, Rochester
BBC A woman wearing brown running gear stretches her right leg ahead of a training session. She stands in front of a lake, surrounded by vegetation.BBC
Kirsty Toner has been training for the London Marathon in April

A woman whose mother died while battling alcohol addiction is urging others to seek help before it's too late.

Kirsty Toner, from Rochester in Kent, believes her mother Stella began to struggle after her children became adults.

"She started going through a slippery slope of drinking and she went missing in August 2023 and unfortunately she was found in the River Medway," said Ms Toner.

She is training for the London Marathon on 27 April, and will be raising money for the addiction recovery charity Open Road, which helped her mother.

Kirsty Toner A woman wearing a dark grey cape over a white dress poses for a photograph while standing between two metal frame statues of deer.Kirsty Toner
Stella Toner was found in the River Medway after going missing

Leah Slater is the fundraising manager for the charity and has called Kirsty's efforts "fantastic".

"We really appreciate all she does," she said.

"The fundraising and the donations that come in through this will go straight into supporting people like her mum and people out there who are struggling with substance abuse."

A woman in brown running top and shorts jogs along a footpath beside a lake.
Kirsty Toner is raising money for the charity Open Road

Kent County Council is aiming to reduce the number of alcohol-related A&E admissions by around 6% by 2028.

Ms Toner is urging anyone struggling with addiction to act now.

She said: "You can get support networks out there, there are people who understand, so just speak up. I think it's really important."

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