Man completes 'brutal' climb in memory of army son

Strongmen bereavement charity The group of 20 climbers from the Strongmen charity who climbed Kilimanjaro together. Many are wearing hats and sunglasses and warm coats, and they are posed around signs at the peak of the mountain.Strongmen bereavement charity
The 20 charity climbers made it up Kilimanjaro despite the "brutal" conditions

A man who climbed Mount Kilimanjaro in memory of his son said the experience was "brutal".

Efrem Brynin, from Pulborough, West Sussex, scaled Africa's highest peak with 19 others to raise funds and awareness for the StrongMen bereavement charity.

His son James was killed in the war in Afghanistan in 2013.

Mr Brynin told BBC Radio Sussex it was "a humbling experience".

He said: "The conditions were particularly difficult when we did it, we had people on oxygen, we had people passing out. There was a particular lack of oxygen up towards to the summit.

"You set off at midnight so you're in the pitch black for six hours just following the headtorch in front of you.

"People were falling asleep because of the lack of oxygen, people were being sick and having to take extra breaks, it was brutal.

"We went up about 1,000m (3,280 ft) every day, on the final day you go up 1,000m to get to the maximum altitude, which is just below 6,000m (19,685ft).

"It's a spiritual part of the world and it's a spiritual thing to climb a mountain, you're closer to heaven."

Efrem Brynin A photograph of James Brynin in army combat uniform, with an automatic pistol on a holster on his chest.Efrem Brynin
James Brynin was killed while serving in Afghanistan

StrongMen, which was co-founded by Mr Brynin, aims to support men following bereavement.

The aim of the climb was to raise £40,000.

"Whilst we were away we had 20 people contact us for support," said Mr Brynin.

"That costs us about £1,000 per person to give someone 12 counselling sessions.

"To take a person for a weekend in Snowdon costs around £500 per person, and with the constant increase in costs in terms of staff and fuel it's an ever spinning plate that we're trying to spin faster and faster."

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