Grieving mum pays tribute to her 'best friend' son

Catherine Nicoll
BBC News, Isle of Man
Rebecca Parker Rebecca Parker and her son Christopher McBurnie smile at the camera with their heads together.Rebecca Parker
Rebecca Parker said her son Christopher was a "lovable comedian"

The mother of a 14-year-old who was fatally stabbed last month has paid tribute to her "best boy" and "best friend".

Christopher McBurnie, of Bromet Road in Castletown, died in Ramsey on 29 May.

Rebecca Parker described her son as a "lovable comedian" who loved animals and was passionate about Liverpool Football Club.

"He wasn't just my son," she said. "He was my best friend, he was my world, he was my life."

A 14-year-old boy charged with Christopher's murder will next appear in court on 2 July.

Ms Parker said Christopher and his four siblings meant everything to her.

She said his death had "absolutely shattered" her, adding "it's more than heartbreak - it's indescribable".

FAMILY HANDOUT Christopher McBurnie smiling. He has brown eyes and short dark brown hair with a long fringe brushed to the side.FAMILY HANDOUT
Christopher McBurnie died on 29 May after he was stabbed in Ramsey

Ms Parker said her son was "football mad" and had played for Colby Football Club on the island for several years, where he had been "absolutely over the moon" to be awarded the under-12 player of the year.

She said she shared a special bond with "kind and empathetic" Christopher.

"Every night when he came home we'd have this routine," she said. "He'd come up to my bedroom and sit on my bed and we'd just have a natter.

"We were very open with each other. Because he had quite an older head on his shoulders as well, you could have a conversation with him about things."

REBECCA PARKER A young Christopher McBurnie wearing a red-and-white Liverpool scarf in the stands at Anfield.REBECCA PARKER
Christopher was an avid Liverpool fan
Rebecca Parker A black-and-white selfie of Rebecca Parker with a very young Christopher lying with their heads together on a bed. They are both smiling and he is looking at her.Rebecca Parker
Rebecca Parker said she shared a special bond with her oldest child

Ms Parker said she had been "getting flooded with photos and videos" from Christopher's friends since his death, which showed he was "just very well-loved".

"His friends have sent me videos and pictures of him being the clown really, doing jokes and all that, and that was him in a bubble. Just the best."

REBECCA PARKER Christopher McBurnie is photographed with his eyes closed with his hood up over his head. A small grey tabby cat is sitting in his arms.REBECCA PARKER
Christopher McBurnie's mum said her 14-year-old son had a love of animals

She said Christopher's funeral on Friday would be "his big day" and a chance to "celebrate" him.

"I don't like to call it a funeral so I've just been calling it Christopher's day," she explained.

Ms Parker said the procession would start from the family's home in Castletown "because he didn't make it home, so I've got to bring him home".

Reflecting on life without her eldest son, she said: "Everywhere I go I can see his smile. It's like I can see him but I can't see him, every memory's coming back.

"All I keep thinking about is the night-time, because I think that was our special time, just me and him having a little natter before bed. That was our time."

The service will begin at TheAbbey Church in Ballasalla at 10:30 BST.

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