Family want change after son's murder abroad

Katie Waple
BBC News
Alex Meakin
BBC News, Berkshire
BBC Brian Millin stands on the left with partner Maggie Reeve on the right. Brian is wearing a white polo shirt with black and grey stripes. Maggie is wearing a bright blue top with a blue scarf. BBC
Tom's stepfather and mother are calling for a change to the system

The family of a man who was murdered in the US are calling for more support when loved ones are killed abroad.

Tom Reeve, 28, from Maidenhead, was shot dead when a man entered a bar in Amarillo, Texas, in 2009.

His step-father Brian Millin said the process following his death had taken "far too long, and there wasn't enough help from the government" on issues like contacting foreign consulates, translating documents and repatriation.

A spokesperson for the Foreign Office said the family had been supported at the time but are yet to explain what processes are currently in place.

Speaking in the House of Commons, Under-Secretary of State for Justice Alex Davies-Jones said the government was looking at what extra information could "better signpost help for those affected by crimes overseas".

"I intend to consult on the new code with all new members and the public in due course," he said.

Mr Millin explained his stepson had been on holiday with two friends during a visit to see his biological father when he decided to take a road trip "because he liked the song" (Is This The Way To) Amarillo by Tony Christie.

He was killed when a gunman opened fire in an armed raid at a bar.

Ray Carlos Cisneros was later arrested and jailed for the killing.

Family Photo Thomas Reeve smiling at the camera has ginger hair and beard with blue eyes and is wearing a purple shirt.Family Photo
Thomas Reeve was aged 28 when he was murdered in the US

Mr Millin said: "We managed to contact the consulate in Houston but there is a time difference and they were not always very helpful...

"We decided to handle everything directly ourselves including repatriation of Tom because we were not getting any help from our government at this end or that end.

"The murder of any family member is traumatic and you're just not prepared for it.

"When it's abroad it just compounds the issues, the time differences and very often there's a language difficulty."

'Morally wrong'

Mr Millin has since got involved with the charity Murdered Abroad and the issue has been taken up by their MP Joshua Reynolds who is also calling on the government to "do more to help these families".

He said: "There's already a requirement for consulates to be able to support families but there is no clear criteria of what this means.

"I've set out a number of tests that I think will be clear, that we want to be looking at in the future.

"Translating legal and investigative documents into English, guidance and support around legal systems.

"The Foreign Office have got this information, the Foreign Office knows how these work so it should be able to support these families in doing so."

Tom's mother Maggie said: "His last words to me were 'chill mother, it will all be fine' and I'd like to think that it would. It will be fine if we can get this changed. It's just morally wrong."

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