'How my pet hamster led me to my future wife'

Erin Lister
BBC News
Chris Davies says Popcorn the hamster, who went viral on TikTok, helped him with his mental health

When Chris Davies's daughter first begged him for a hamster, he wasn't exactly thrilled.

But eight-year-old Lily, after hours of research, managed to convince her dad they were not just "starter pets" and to welcome one into their home.

The NHS nurse bought Popcorn, a hamster he said he knew there was "something different" about from the beginning.

But nothing could have prepared Chris for the "surreal" impact the rodent would have on his life, eventually leading him to the woman he will soon marry.

Chris Davies A small hamster, Popcorn, looks at the camera. He is orange and white, with round black eyes and a pink nose. Chris Davies
Chris says he had to convince Lily to choose Popcorn, who was "smaller and not as pretty as the others" when they bought him

Not long after bringing Popcorn home, Chris' life took an expected turn as he had a "sudden" break-up.

"I was broken after," he said. Yet during those lonely times, it was Popcorn who offered him unexpected support.

"I thought I'd just be more open-minded and see what this animal was about."

Chris was surprised to find that Popcorn behaved more like a loyal puppy than a rodent.

"He was following me like a dog," he said. "I got him on the sofa with me, and he fell asleep on my chest. I couldn't believe it."

Chris Davies Chris lies back on his sofa, with Popcorn the hamster cuddled into his neck. They both appear to be sleeping. Chris Davies
Chris says he never expected Popcorn to be so affectionate

For Chris, who struggles with anxiety, Popcorn soon became a source of calm and connection.

"It was just a really beautiful thing. It was mindfulness.

"Being a nurse in the NHS, some days are quite hard and it's really stressful, but Popcorn would just calm me down."

Lily and other family members began encouraging Chris to post videos of Popcorn's behaviour online.

"I was kind of anxious at first," Chris said. "How many blokes do you see lying on a sofa with a hamster?"

But almost as soon as Chris began posting videos of Popcorn on TikTok, they took off.

More than140,000 fans were charmed by Popcorn's unusual personality, his affection and his bond with Chris and Lily.

He became, as Chris lovingly described him, their "micro-dog".

Chris Davies Popcorn sits on top of a game controller in Lily's hands.Chris Davies
Though Lily never appeared on the TikTok videos, she was also very attached to Popcorn

What followed was a bizarre set of events no one could have been predicted, Chris said.

As Popcorn gained popularity online, Chris and Lily wrote a book together about the impact that the little critter had on their family, which was then published in May 2024.

Then one evening, Chris then received a comment from a fellow Cardiffian, Carrie, telling him his content was "cute".

The pair got chatting, soon discovering mutual passions, a shared love for animals and even the same profession.

"We were living only a mile apart, but we'd never bumped into each other," Chris said. "It was crazy."

Chris Davies Chris and Carrie smile at the camera which their faces pressed together. It is snowing and they are clearly standing outside in the snow. Chris Davies
Chris says meeting Carrie through posting videos of Popcorn, in the age of dating apps, felt like "fate"

Chris and Carrie met in person a few months later and when Carrie held Popcorn, Chris said, it was like a something "clicked into place".

The family, which has now grown to include Carrie and her children as well, sadly lost Popcorn in the summer of 2023.

But fast forward to today and Chris and Carrie are engaged, set to marry this December.

Their wedding cake will even feature a small tribute to Popcorn, with his name written at the bottom.

"Without him it wouldn't have happened, you know. He was cupid, in a way." Chris said.

Though Popcorn has been gone for a few years now, his impact remains immeasurable.

For Chris, he was more than just a pet. "There's never be another Popcorn," he said. "He was just a one-off."